Love Hurts
How love hurts and several quotes from well known authors regarding how much pain a feeling of love can cause.Love
is great when it is fresh and happening and when you feel it slipping
away, both the times love makes us feel there is nothing like love in
our life. Though love gives a certain high at the time when both of you
are feeling the same things, there is nothing more painful that your
love going away.
Love hurts so much that at times it leaves you in
depth of sadness which is certainly larger than the high of happiness
it gave you. A breakup is the thing about love, a reason that prompts
many to avoid being in love. Many simply ignore the realization that
they are in love because they dread the time when this feeling will wear
itself off and the remains of love will be torn to shred by arguments
and fights and usual drifting away.
Many famous people have fallen
in love again and again only to grow apart and feel the sadness that
love tends to give after it goes away. There are very less numbers of
people who have not experienced love and almost all who have experienced
love have experienced the heartbreak that follows love, bar a few lucky
ones. Many writers have expressed their feelings about how love hurts
in most apt way and that is through quotes.
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As
famous poet and writer Oscar Wilde puts it, “when one is in love, one
always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving
others, that is what the world calls romance.” Love is blind and has
been proven more than one time, often couples in love do not see stark
differences that are obvious to others in their personality. Love often
makes people do things and act in certain ways, that are surprising to
others as well as themselves, heart wants to love whether or not brains
allows it, therefore, rational decision making rarely takes place when
people are in love.
There are quotes made by other famous literary
giants like William Shakespeare who wrote “The courses of true love
never did run smooth!” this happens to be true too, most passionate love
affairs have ended up rather tragically, with either the couple
breaking up with some one causing the breakup or one among the couple
passing away. Whenever there is true love there is no dearth of troubles
coming its way.
There is another quote from an anonymous author
who quotes, “Why is it always that we don’t know when love happens, and
we always know the moment it ends?” True some people though they do
recognize the feeling of love, and they know that they are in love tend
to ignore it to the extent they can. It is mere fear of the break up and
the denial that love cannot happen to them makes them react in such a
way to love, however whenever love has ended we accept it and face it
faster than we recognized it.
End of love means end of the world
for some, where people are unable to comes to terms with the end in
relationship often get depressed and are more likely to try drastic
methods since they cannot stand the pain end of relationship brings
together. There is a proverb that proves love to be a truthful thing it
is “where there is love there is pain”. Love can bring up pain in
different forms not just through break up.
Love gives pain
whenever your beloved is in pain or suffering. Love ensures that you
will suffer as much or maybe more when your beloved is suffering just
because you cannot do anything to ease out the pain and the emotional
turbulence your beloved is going through.
Another quote by William
Shakespeare proves how difficult it can be to comes to terms with a
breakup, he quotes “Love is a smoke made with the fumes of sighs.” This
quote speaks so much about feeling of losing out on something precious
that a breakup tends to bring. No wonder people who have been through
this feeling sigh away their sadness.
All pain that there is in
love is given all the more aptly by George Granville, who writes “Of all
pains, the greatest pain, is to love, and to love in vain.” Whenever
feelings of love are not reciprocated or the relationship that one
values so much is not valued equally by the partner, definitely the
feeling of loving in vain would come. The feeling of not being esteemed
as much as you esteemed another person will surely cause pain.
Love
hurts through different ways, you can be in love and with the one you
love and still be hurt, or a breakup in a relationship can hurt. It does
not take a long time to end a relationship, but it surely takes a
lifetime to forget someone you once loved so dearly.