Thursday, January 15, 2009

FRIEND

Sometimes it takes rain
To make the flowers grow
Sometimes it takes real pain
Before real joy one knows

Sometimes it takes tomorrows
To understand days gone by
Sometimes before the laughter
There comes heavy sigh
Sometimes it takes the longest mile
Before things come insight
Sometimes I often wonder
How I could live my life happier
And then U came by
And fill my loneliness inside

All I wanna do
Is to be always here for U
I wanted you to know
That I don't want U to go

Sometimes when I think
This has been the greatest thing
That ever happen to me

My dear can U see?
Thank U for everything
That you have done for me

What should i write
What could it be
Just three words
I LOVE YOU


THIS POEM IS FOR ALL M FRIENDS.....

FRIENDS


The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail and not his tongue.

Doesn’t worry about knowing people
just make you worth knowing?

Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer.

If you can buy a person's friendship,
it is not worth having.

True friends have hearts that beat as one.

If you cannot think of any nice things to say about your friends,
then you have the wrong friends.

Make friends before you need them.

If you were another person,
would you want to be a friend of yours?

A good friend is one who neither looks down on you nor keeps up with you.

Be friendly with the folks you know..
if it weren't for them you would be a total stranger.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

A friend is never known till he is needed.

Friendship is a responsibility...
not an opportunity.

Friends are those who speak to you after others don't.

Pick your friends, but not to pieces.

The way to have friends is to be willing to lose some arguments.

If a friend makes a mistake,
don't rub it in....rub it out.

Deal with other's faults as gently as if they were your own.

People are judged by the company they keep
and the company they keep away from.

A friend is a person who can step on your toes
without messing your shine.

The best mirror is an old friend

Make new friends, but keep the old,
one is silver, the other is gold.

You will never have a friend if you must have one without faults.

Doing nothing for your friends results in having no friends to do for.

Anyone can give advice,
but a real friend will lend a helping hand.

You can make more friends by being interested in them
than trying to have them be interested in you.

A real friend is a person who,
when you've made a fool of yourself,
lets you forget it.

A friend is a person who listens attentively
while you say nothing.

You can buy friendship with friendship,
but never with dollars.

True friends are like diamonds,
precious but rare;
false friends are like autumn leaves,
found everywhere.

A friend is someone who thinks you're a good egg
even though you're slightly cracked.

Friendship is the cement that holds the world together.

Friends are quiet angels
who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble
remembering how to fly.

A friend is one that knows you as you are,
understands where you have been,
accepts what you have become,
and still, gently allows you to grow
William Shakespeare.

Friends are people
You should never erase
Like delicate flowers
You couldn't replace
Always there
Through thick and thin
They'll listen to your problems
Again and again
They stay by your side
When no one else cares
And give the you love
No one else shares
Friends are angels
From heaven above
Beautiful people
You should always love
I remember a saying from a book once I read, "love is the seed of all sufferings in this entire illusory Samara," Buddha said. Today I just realized that He was undoubtedly true... Yesterday, 25th Jan.2008 one of my close friends who is currently undergoing excruciatingly painful emotional breakdown due to broken relationship paid me a visit.......he said, had it not been for his obstinate love he wouldn't be in extreme agony. Now he started drinking hoping against hope that he may forget her but it just became pile on the gloom. He called her wishing to reconcile............he was asked to wait till doomsday that left him in gloom and doom. I said him just forget her....but deep within our heart we understandably comprehend how things at this stage is easier said than done.
Stronger the love - stronger the bond of attachment to your love object and this definitely means greater pathetically agonized sufferings when most of the time inevitably broken apart in many cases sooner or later. So I think as He said.......love is suffering!!!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

About religion

Sicknesses are the brooms sweeping your evil deeds.
Seeing the sicknesses as the teachers, pray to them…
Sicknesses are coming to you by the kindness of the masters and the Three Jewels.
Sicknesses are your accomplishments, so worship them as the deities.
Sicknesses are the signs that your bad karmas are being exhausted.
Do not look at the face of your sickness, but at the who is sick.
Do not place the sicknesses on your mind, but place your naked intrinsic awareness upon your sickness.
This is the instruction on sickness arising as the Dharmakaya.
The body is inanimate and mind is emptiness.
What can cause pain to an inanimate thing or harm to the emptiness?
Search for where the sicknesses are coming from, where they go, and where they dwell.
Sicknesses are mere sudden projections of your thoughts.
When those thoughts disappear, the sicknesses dissolve too…
There is not better fuel (than sicknesses) to burn off the bad karmas.
Don't get into entertaining a sad mind or negative views (over the sicknesses),
But see them as the signs of the waning of your bad karmas, and rejoice over them. By; Kuenkhyen Jigme Lingpa, translation unknown....

Love is suffering


I remember a saying from a book once I read, "love is the seed of all sufferings in this entire illusory Samara," Buddha said. Today I just realized that He was undoubtedly true... Yesterday, 25th Jan.2008 one of my close friends who is currently undergoing excruciatingly painful emotional breakdown due to broken relationship paid me a visit.......he said, had it not been for his obstinate love he wouldn't be in extreme agony. Now he started drinking hoping against hope that he may forget her but it just became pile on the gloom. He called her wishing to reconcile............he was asked to wait till doomsday that left him in gloom and doom. I said him just forget her....but deep within our heart we understandably comprehend how things at this stage is easier said than done.
Stronger the love - stronger the bond of attachment to your love object and this definitely means greater pathetically agonized sufferings when most of the time inevitably broken apart in many cases sooner or later. So I think as He said.......love is suffering!!!