Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Darling


Hi darling is what he says to every girl he meets over the phone excluding his relatives. He is so used to using this line that now i think he feels his talk is incomplete without this very reference. He is a flirt n this line fo him is like any other meal of the day.

Once it so happened that he met a girl in a pub , as usual he got into his usual self and started flirting with her. His talk was all fairy like, wonderful and flawless. He was so engrossed in himself that he didn't bother to ask her about herself. They talked fro almost an hour and since the girl was attentive and was laughing at his jokes he thought he got himself a prey gain.. suddenly the door opened and a man familiar to him entered, he got up form his seat and greeted him. The man was no other then his uncle. They said the normal, how r u and stuffs like that. After that, he was about to introduce his uncle to his new found girlfriend( that whet he always thinks after any brief conversations with girls) when the opposite happened.. his uncle proudly introduced his newly weeded wife to his nephew. He was among and blushed.. meanwhile his now aunt said she was laughing because what she heard form the uncle about his nephew was in minute detail absolutely true and she got to experience that practically..

all of thm had a hearty laugh...

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Wealth and its impermanence

Wealth and its impermanence


Many people think “wealth is happiness”. Happiness is a just mental state of mind that we make. A thing may make me happy but may not make others happy and vice versa. So it is complicated to make judgment straight way if wealth is happiness. Cyrus has said, “No good man ever become suddenly rich”. We sweat a lot to bring forth desired result i.e. wealth. All human activities are prompted by desire and we soon believe what we desire, but it is just an illusion. It is also said that all compounded things are impermanent. One day or other, everything on earth decay and disappears.

Wealth is a means of happiness. If wealth were happiness, it would lead to greed for it as we all crave for undying happiness. Naturally the more of it the better we live. But our needs are endless, while our means are limited. So it is not surprising that men desire for more and more wealth which leads to more happiness resulting into a greater wage to have more wealth. Possession of wealth makes people harbor more power, authority and dominance. But keep in mind, that too much of anything is bad. “The world has enough for everyone’s need, but not enough for everyone’s greed” – remarked Mahatma Gandhi. The crazy wealth hunts and feeds the sin of avarice. It seems it is ever increasing.

TS. Eliot remarked, “Life is made up of little things. I have measured out life with coffee spoons”. So every living thing on this universe is destined to short-lived. These are like “the rose that bloom today, dies tomorrow. The beauty cannot keep her lustrous eyes”. All these signify the impermanence of everything. Wealth in real sense causes worries, anxiety and even greed. Labialize said that “he who desires naught will always be free”. Be contented with what you have. The cause for desperation, sorrow and frustration is our desires and emotions. And all emotions and desires make us more emotional ultimately leading towards the sufferings.

Burning a mountain with a single thought

Burning a mountain with a single thought


The Buddha warned that disruption of seasonal rains would usher in a period of famine followed by war and strife. Darfur in the African plains has already suffered this sequence of disasters.

As such, it is perhaps the first major casualty of global warming, but unless the tide is turned – and turned soon – it will not be the last.

After much debate, global warming is finally accepted as a reality, and pollution clearly identified as the main culprit. Scientists produce copious amounts of data to prove the validity of these conclusions and various accords aimed at reducing our carbon footprints are ratified. I’m sure the Buddha would applaud all this, but he would take the preventative measures a step further. In his warning of famine and conflict, he did not refer to carbon footprints, but instead identified excessive greed and distorted values as the root cause. Pollution is merely a symptom of these wrong views.

So, what is right view and how does it help solve global warming? One of the four tenants of Buddhism is that all things are interconnected. Take a table as an example. It is made of wood that comes from a tree. The tree grew from a seed that matured through interaction with moisture, sunlight and nutrition.

If any one of these factors is absent, the tree would not grow and a table would not be produced. Everything we can see, hear or touch is the same. Even our thoughts develop because of many contributing factors, such as past experiences and educational influences.

When we do not recognize that things are interconnected in this way, we feel that our action is unrelated to the world around us. We throw garbage on the streets of Thimphu without recognizing that it is us who will reap the repercussions if tourists shun the city or disease becomes rampant. Such a scenario is similar to the liver or kidneys selfishly polluting the body without understanding that they are an integral part of the whole structure and will be adversely affected by the sickness that follows.

These are the consequences that industrialists face today. Without understanding their intrinsic connection to the world around them, humans tend to act in short-sighted and self destructive ways. They consider only their personal interests and do not realize that destruction of the eco-system is in fact a window into their own demise.

“Think globally. Act locally” is a common environmentalist slogan. In other words, we need to fully recognize the dire state of the environment on a global scale, while working at a local and personal level to enact positive change. In a recently composed aspirational prayer directed at environmental concerns, Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche pledges to refrain from allowing tap water to run when brushing his teeth. While this may not appear an earth shattering initiative, it fully accords with the Buddha’s observation that intention is the precursor of action. Even the Great Wall of China or major social reforms such as democracy began as a single thought in one person’s mind. Therefore, transforming the mind and correcting our view is the basis of creating a healthy society and environment.

As a citizen of a small country hidden in the folds of the Himalayas, some people might question whether their individual efforts can effect positive change on a global scale. The answer is definitely yes. As the sea is comprised of many small droplets of water, so society is comprised of many people. If some of these begin to transform their view, a surge of positive change will be initiated. Like a rock dropped into a pool of water, the ripples will reach shores far from the place of impact.

Therefore, next time we offer butter lamps at a lhakhang or water and incense to a statue, we should not do so as though we are offering a gift to appease some external god. Instead, we should use the opportunity as a means to transform our mind, and this we do by sincerely dedicating the offering to the well-being of the planet and to the happiness all beings.

If just a single thought can give rise to the Great Wall of China or a major reform movement, consider the effects of everyone in Thimphu or Bhutan starting the day with awareness about the environment and arousing magnanimous thoughts about their fellow beings. In this way, a simple custom like offering a butter lamp or refraining from leaving the tap water running while brushing our teeth becomes a dynamic wellspring for change.

From today, therefore, let us not only remember to turn off the water when brushing our teeth, but also to use only reusable bags when purchasing goods and to buy only organically grown fruit and vegetables. These may appear symbolic gestures in the face of a huge challenge like global warming, but as the Buddha himself said, “Even a tiny spark of fire can burn a mountain-high heap of grass.”


Monday, January 5, 2009

Sadness

Sadness




Why do the stars that charms the night look sicken'd tonight?

A new year lies ahead of her, just a few hours to go

And the darkness of yesterdays overshadow the rays of a new life

High in the air, she meant to rise

Somehow, down below an ocean of sorrows is all she got

Hopes have faded away, in this waste of existence

Not a friend to cry or laugh with, cold and alone

All she has is the roar of the wind, echoes repeat

Her eyes once upon a time glanc'd for him

Two hearts throbb'd together, embraces no longer met

He buried them all for her

No more deep slumbers, no more songs to sing

A heart once broken keeps breaking again and again

He heart wither'd like the winter leaves

O'er the years, never once turned into a new leaf

As a willow tree o'er the river wept

She floated, like a swan in the river of life

Blue peaks in a distant land rose against the cold white sky

And as the wind hovers over her like a canopy of miseries

The darned world took away her soul!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008


A Starnger Within !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




You were just like any other stranger

Stepped into my life just to go away one day

We talked about books, music and the rivers

Shared moments (nostalgic) as you would call it

But somehow, you were always a stranger within

We fought, we laughed and "I" cried

Closer we got with what I thought was "similarities"

Tried to put aside the few differences we had

We moved on, together (or not)

But somehow you were always a stranger within

I asked "what you want from me?"

You never did give me an answer to it

Questions we had plenty but answer we had none

We decided not to look for answers, let them show on their own

But somehow you were always a stranger within

I fell in love; thought love was to stay forever this time

You said you were in love too

Hell! It was easy for you to walk out on love

Who do I blame? My love or the stranger

Somehow you were always a stranger within

Tonight I hold whiskey, and a broken heart

I wait for the stranger who broke my heart

"Ok and who ever you are?"

Were the words that broke me forever, your last words to me. Because...

Somehow you were always a stranger within!

little humor with a good moral


A little humor with a good moral. The Pastor's Ass The pastor entered his donkey in a race and it won. The pastor was so pleased with the donkey that he entered it in the Race again, and it won again. The local paper read: PASTOR'S ASS OUT FRONT. The Bishop was so upset with this kind of publicity that he ordered the pastor not to enter the donkey in another race. The next day, the local paper headline read: BISHOP SCRATCHES PASTOR'S ASS. This was too much for the bishop, so he ordered the pastor to get rid of the donkey. The pastor decided to give it to a nun in a nearby convent. The local paper, hearing of the news, posted the following headline the next day: NUN HAS BEST ASS IN TOWN. The bishop fainted. He informed the nun that she would have to get rid of the donkey, so she sold it to a farmer for $10. The next day the paper read: NUN SELLS ASS FOR $10. This was too much for the bishop, so he ordered the nun to buy back the donkey and lead it to the plains where it could run wild. The next day the headlines read: NUN ANNOUNCES HER ASS IS WILD AND FREE. The bishop was buried the next day. The moral of the story is .. . . being concerned about public opinion can bring you much grief and misery . even shorten your life.. So be yourself and enjoy life. Stop worrying about everyone Else's ass and you'll be a lot happier and live longer! Have a nice day! Sharing is caring!


possible girls' BOYFRIEND!

I met this man a few months back. He is charming and cute. It is not that i liked this man at first sight o whatever, in fact when we met for the first time i thought thatz going to be our last, but circumstances didn't allow me to do that and we met for several times. He would shower me with all the beautiful words in the dictionary but since i had already smelt something unreal i didn't take things seriously. This went on for weeks before i decided i should meet him and get things clarified because somewhere i was beginning to be convinced by his talks and i didn't want to fall prey to something which is not bona fide. Hence a place, date and the time was fixed for our meeting.

I was a step far from placing my trust on him and expressing as to how i feel when his cell phone rang. I could hear the person on the other side speaking, it was a girl and he was bullshitting to her in front of me. He was telling her that he is with an aunt! He said the same line to me several times during our phone conversations. I was like what? but then smiled to myself thinking of how stupid i was to believe him when he was giving me all the shits. I was beginning to kill him in my mind, somehow i managed to bury my fury and pretend like nothing happened. He hung over the phone and started talking to me like always and i did the same. He was saying like it is very difficult to impress every girl he knew and it takes a lot of effort to make everyone happy. I smiled!

He concluded by saying his feelings for me is different, that he loves me and so on.. it was unbelievable, how can he lie so much yea.. i was like enna enna? but just to test his mind i said i am serious and want him to be just mine. Guess what he said: he said, if i want i can go around telling people that he is my boyfriend but he can never be committed to one. Actually he wants to be a boyfriend to every girl possible. I had a hearty laugh.

Since i wasn't totally onto him, it wasnt hard for me to wipe away what has started to germinate.

We are still friends and he is still with that habit of flirting with girls. I got no idea when he is gonna get serious but i do genuinely hope he doesn't hurt those girls on the way.